I’ve been busy as fuck lately. Lots of work, lots of driving, lots of taking care of mom and not a lot of much else. Saw some fun things, ate some good food–stir fry is my weakness–and touched base with an ex because I was in his neck of the woods. We didn’t say more […]
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i’m re-reading a story that i totally know how it will end and when it will take me through my emotional paces because i’m missing the control of a dominant partner. GN used to get on my nerves when he made me go to bed but he’d also cuddle me for a while until i
need new things to read Read More »
I’m watching tennis. I love tennis. It’s a spectator sport but it’s really the battle of wills between two given people. Depending on the day it’s a battle royale or a steamroller. And sometimes it’s both because someone gets distracted or injured or the weather shifts or what have you. My digital buddy Frances Tiafoe
when sleep is all you’re getting Read More »
I’ve been back in classes. I think I may try to do something in depth once a month if I can but that’s not what this post is about. I sat in a class on Butler Books which was kind of fascinating. It’s essentially about creating a book to help focus your service and make
More reflection, gaining clarity Read More »
I know that’s probably not newsworthy for most but I normally don’t have much of an appetite most of the day so to actually be hungry is weird. It usually either means I’m sick or overly tired. I really want some chips and that is making me want a sandwich so it’s not a waste
I have been on virtual meetings most of the weekend. All of this is by choice even though I forgot about some of it. Some of it is kink related and other is a vanilla interest. Either way, I’m multitasking and listening in. I’m glad that I am able to do this at all. Friday
Self-care is more than massages and pedicures Read More »
So I have a lot to do today. Normally, I’d sleep until 45 minutes before I needed to get started but I woke up with the alarm and stayed up for a change. Yesterday or the day before if we’re being time specific (y’all the days are blurring together with the sleep issues), I sent
up early, not feeling broken, still a little lonely Read More »
Before I went to bed last night I wanted to hear some music but I didn’t want it permeating the house because it was approaching midnight and my forever roommate was nearing sleep if they weren’t already. I had been listening to T Pain’s cover album on spotify and figured I’d just move over to
Amazon music set the vibe, I slept like a baby Read More »
y’all i’m tired. i have more stuff to do this week and only one or two will be fun for me. the rest is kind of time consuming and yeah i wanna sleep. i went to a virtual shibari class tonight and that was good. i like seeing patterns come to life in rope. i
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Hi Folks, I have delayed posting for a while because I was a bit frustrated with Blogger. After being on their platform since 2005, some of my very old posts started getting flagged without warning which I think I mentioned before. That’s fine if there was something in violation but there really wasn’t. I appealed
Pardon the dust, we’re renovating and I’m in Wakanda Read More »
