I have been on virtual meetings most of the weekend. All of this is by choice even though I forgot about some of it. Some of it is kink related and other is a vanilla interest. Either way, I’m multitasking and listening in. I’m glad that I am able to do this at all. Friday …
Hi Folks, I have delayed posting for a while because I was a bit frustrated with Blogger. After being on their platform since 2005, some of my very old posts started getting flagged without warning which I think I mentioned before. That’s fine if there was something in violation but there really wasn’t. I appealed …
Pardon the dust, we’re renovating and I’m in Wakanda Read More »
I will post the last of the journal prompts tomorrow which doesn’t quite bring me to a year of posts because I just got over the daily posts. Some of them were repetitive and others were just not applicable. Even though it isn’t up yet, I learned a lot from this exercise of thinking about …
a year of submissive guide prompts & i forgot this part Read More »
Prompt for today: Where does sex fall on your list of basic needs? I don’t know that it’s very high outside of a relationship. I like orgasms but I can give myself those at any point in time. If I’m in a relationship what I’m looking for is typically comfort and honesty and connection. Sex …
A few days ago i logged off of Fetlife maybe for the last time. Outside of looking at one man and arbitrarily reading what was on Kinky and Popular, I wasn’t engaging as much as I used to do. The threads started to feel antagonistic or just weren’t interesting to me. That’s a by product …
Prompt for today: Do you feel like there’s a learning curve in submission? Do you have to unlearn societal norms? Not in the same way there is for a job. I think you have to learn your partner moreso than the role unless you are not naturally inclined to submission. This is not an issue …
I started on this post a few hours ago and then got distracted. I do that though so I wasn’t feeling upset about that. It let me settle into my thoughts more and come at this from a different perspective. I am not a huge horoscope girl. I read them from time to time just …
This will be random as hell or what I think I want right now Read More »
Prompt for today: How do you handle disagreements or conflicts? It depends on what the disagreement or conflict is. If it’s something minor like I would prefer to sleep on one side of the bed but it really doesn’t matter as long as I get some sleep then I’m probably going to bed. If it’s …
i’m not doing the daily blog posts for a while. i want to have time to tamp down my irritation between these very triggering prompts. triggering is probably not the right weird but i found myself rolling my eyes a lot lately and that wasn’t fun. the last prompt for this week was decent so …
prompt for today: shortened–how does submission impact your daily routine? do you have to ask for things or check in? only one partner asked me to do check ins and it did not go well. my day fluctuates literally hour to hour sometimes so doing x when you wake up or y when you get …