i was fully prepared for sleep and maybe i’ll get there after i finish this post but about 20 minutes ago the storm rolled in that was predicted. however, it was louder and more aggressive than i was expecting. it made me worry about the plants and then then the plants flying into a window […]
i opened this hours ago to write this post but didn’t get around to it. i was watching the katt williams special with mom, waiting for the next kendrick drop and generally just minding my business. i briefly hopped on fetlife and debated sending messages to folks. reading the little i read made me change
tell no lies about me and i will tell no truths about you or whatever kendrick said Read More »
I need to be going to sleep. I’ve been moving it feels like non stop for almost two weeks. And I still have four more days of why are we doing this right now before it eases up for another few days. But I heard a song in my head and it has made it
memories seem to haunt me Read More »
Thinking about submission is always a weird thing for me. I think about where I’ve been and where I want to be. I think about what I’ve learned and what I still need to learn about myself, the universe and the person I will ultimately serve. One of the things that has tripped me up
The title may be shocking for those of you are not connected to Jill Scott and her amazingness. This quote from her is not new but a video is recirculating that keeps the words resonating with me. I’ll see if I can find a clip and embed it but I’m definitely about to share the
The WisDOM of Miss Jill Scott Read More »
I’ve been back in classes. I think I may try to do something in depth once a month if I can but that’s not what this post is about. I sat in a class on Butler Books which was kind of fascinating. It’s essentially about creating a book to help focus your service and make
More reflection, gaining clarity Read More »
I have been on virtual meetings most of the weekend. All of this is by choice even though I forgot about some of it. Some of it is kink related and other is a vanilla interest. Either way, I’m multitasking and listening in. I’m glad that I am able to do this at all. Friday
Self-care is more than massages and pedicures Read More »
Hi Folks, I have delayed posting for a while because I was a bit frustrated with Blogger. After being on their platform since 2005, some of my very old posts started getting flagged without warning which I think I mentioned before. That’s fine if there was something in violation but there really wasn’t. I appealed
Pardon the dust, we’re renovating and I’m in Wakanda Read More »
I will post the last of the journal prompts tomorrow which doesn’t quite bring me to a year of posts because I just got over the daily posts. Some of them were repetitive and others were just not applicable. Even though it isn’t up yet, I learned a lot from this exercise of thinking about
a year of submissive guide prompts & i forgot this part Read More »
Prompt for today: Where does sex fall on your list of basic needs? I don’t know that it’s very high outside of a relationship. I like orgasms but I can give myself those at any point in time. If I’m in a relationship what I’m looking for is typically comfort and honesty and connection. Sex
