Thinking about submission is always a weird thing for me. I think about where I’ve been and where I want to be. I think about what I’ve learned and what I still need to learn about myself, the universe and the person I will ultimately serve. One of the things that has tripped me up …
The title may be shocking for those of you are not connected to Jill Scott and her amazingness. This quote from her is not new but a video is recirculating that keeps the words resonating with me. I’ll see if I can find a clip and embed it but I’m definitely about to share the …
I’ve been back in classes. I think I may try to do something in depth once a month if I can but that’s not what this post is about. I sat in a class on Butler Books which was kind of fascinating. It’s essentially about creating a book to help focus your service and make …
I have been on virtual meetings most of the weekend. All of this is by choice even though I forgot about some of it. Some of it is kink related and other is a vanilla interest. Either way, I’m multitasking and listening in. I’m glad that I am able to do this at all. Friday …
Hi Folks, I have delayed posting for a while because I was a bit frustrated with Blogger. After being on their platform since 2005, some of my very old posts started getting flagged without warning which I think I mentioned before. That’s fine if there was something in violation but there really wasn’t. I appealed …
Pardon the dust, we’re renovating and I’m in Wakanda Read More »
I will post the last of the journal prompts tomorrow which doesn’t quite bring me to a year of posts because I just got over the daily posts. Some of them were repetitive and others were just not applicable. Even though it isn’t up yet, I learned a lot from this exercise of thinking about …
a year of submissive guide prompts & i forgot this part Read More »
Prompt for today: Where does sex fall on your list of basic needs? I don’t know that it’s very high outside of a relationship. I like orgasms but I can give myself those at any point in time. If I’m in a relationship what I’m looking for is typically comfort and honesty and connection. Sex …
A few days ago i logged off of Fetlife maybe for the last time. Outside of looking at one man and arbitrarily reading what was on Kinky and Popular, I wasn’t engaging as much as I used to do. The threads started to feel antagonistic or just weren’t interesting to me. That’s a by product …
Prompt for today: Do you feel like there’s a learning curve in submission? Do you have to unlearn societal norms? Not in the same way there is for a job. I think you have to learn your partner moreso than the role unless you are not naturally inclined to submission. This is not an issue …
I started on this post a few hours ago and then got distracted. I do that though so I wasn’t feeling upset about that. It let me settle into my thoughts more and come at this from a different perspective. I am not a huge horoscope girl. I read them from time to time just …
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