I started on this post a few hours ago and then got distracted. I do that though so I wasn’t feeling upset about that. It let me settle into my thoughts more and come at this from a different perspective. I am not a huge horoscope girl. I read them from time to time just […]
This will be random as hell or what I think I want right now Read More »
Prompt for today: How do you handle disagreements or conflicts? It depends on what the disagreement or conflict is. If it’s something minor like I would prefer to sleep on one side of the bed but it really doesn’t matter as long as I get some sleep then I’m probably going to bed. If it’s
Fourth Week of Weekly Posts Read More »
i’m not doing the daily blog posts for a while. i want to have time to tamp down my irritation between these very triggering prompts. triggering is probably not the right weird but i found myself rolling my eyes a lot lately and that wasn’t fun. the last prompt for this week was decent so
no snappy title tonight just random thoughts Read More »
prompt for today: shortened–how does submission impact your daily routine? do you have to ask for things or check in? only one partner asked me to do check ins and it did not go well. my day fluctuates literally hour to hour sometimes so doing x when you wake up or y when you get
getting these both out of the way tonight Read More »
Prompt: What do you think is the biggest misconception from the outside world regarding BDSM? I am not sure there is one primary one. The two that come to mind the most readily is that people in BDSM are broken in some profound way and that everyone is just into kinky sex without regards to
You know that’s not quite right Read More »
Prompt for today: If SM is part of your dynamic, explain how pain works for you. Is it a sexual turn-on, a healing release, a spiritual moment, a session of giving? So I read this question and then had to realize that pain is not a part of everyone’s dynamic. This may be one
to quote the princess bride: life is pain Read More »
Prompt for today: What do you do to define your work mindset from your submissive one? Or something like that. My work mindset has to be damn near polar opposite my submissive mindset. If I sit back and let other people handle things, a lot of things will never get accomplished. I have to be
I appreciate the lack of April Fools Jokes this year Read More »
Prompt: How does external stress affect your submission or service? The nerd in me is wondering if that should be effect not affect but I don’t care enough to go look it up right now. External stress makes me shut down eventually. When I shut down I don’t ask for help or reach out to
Sometimes things just line up Read More »
Prompt: Are you encouraged to use dirty talk during sexual play? How does it make you feel? I don’t know that I’ve actively been encouraged or discouraged. I tend to say things like fuck me Daddy or hurt me because I’m encouraging more abuse. Typically though I’m just moaning and cumming and slurping and sucking
no snappy title volume wtf Read More »
Let me get the prompt out of the way first: How do you communicate when you are angry/upset? Short answer is badly. My emotions run away with me and it’s ugly as hell initially and then I get anxious and fold in on myself and then I get angrier as the person I need to
This may be the post that never ends, it may go on and on my heathens Read More »
