I will post the last of the journal prompts tomorrow which doesn’t quite bring me to a year of posts because I just got over the daily posts. Some of them were repetitive and others were just not applicable. Even though it isn’t up yet, I learned a lot from this exercise of thinking about […]
a year of submissive guide prompts & i forgot this part Read More »
Prompt for today: Where does sex fall on your list of basic needs? I don’t know that it’s very high outside of a relationship. I like orgasms but I can give myself those at any point in time. If I’m in a relationship what I’m looking for is typically comfort and honesty and connection. Sex
A few days ago i logged off of Fetlife maybe for the last time. Outside of looking at one man and arbitrarily reading what was on Kinky and Popular, I wasn’t engaging as much as I used to do. The threads started to feel antagonistic or just weren’t interesting to me. That’s a by product
let’s just kiss and say good-bye Read More »
Prompt for today: Do you feel like there’s a learning curve in submission? Do you have to unlearn societal norms? Not in the same way there is for a job. I think you have to learn your partner moreso than the role unless you are not naturally inclined to submission. This is not an issue
And here we go again: weekly post #5 Read More »
I started on this post a few hours ago and then got distracted. I do that though so I wasn’t feeling upset about that. It let me settle into my thoughts more and come at this from a different perspective. I am not a huge horoscope girl. I read them from time to time just
This will be random as hell or what I think I want right now Read More »
Prompt for today: How do you handle disagreements or conflicts? It depends on what the disagreement or conflict is. If it’s something minor like I would prefer to sleep on one side of the bed but it really doesn’t matter as long as I get some sleep then I’m probably going to bed. If it’s
Fourth Week of Weekly Posts Read More »
i’m not doing the daily blog posts for a while. i want to have time to tamp down my irritation between these very triggering prompts. triggering is probably not the right weird but i found myself rolling my eyes a lot lately and that wasn’t fun. the last prompt for this week was decent so
no snappy title tonight just random thoughts Read More »
prompt for today: shortened–how does submission impact your daily routine? do you have to ask for things or check in? only one partner asked me to do check ins and it did not go well. my day fluctuates literally hour to hour sometimes so doing x when you wake up or y when you get
getting these both out of the way tonight Read More »
Prompt: What do you think is the biggest misconception from the outside world regarding BDSM? I am not sure there is one primary one. The two that come to mind the most readily is that people in BDSM are broken in some profound way and that everyone is just into kinky sex without regards to
You know that’s not quite right Read More »
Prompt for today: If SM is part of your dynamic, explain how pain works for you. Is it a sexual turn-on, a healing release, a spiritual moment, a session of giving? So I read this question and then had to realize that pain is not a part of everyone’s dynamic. This may be one
to quote the princess bride: life is pain Read More »
