Prompt for today: If SM is part of your dynamic, explain how pain works for you. Is it a sexual turn-on, a healing release, a spiritual moment, a session of giving? So I read this question and then had to realize that pain is not a part of everyone’s dynamic. This may be one […]
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Prompt for today: What do you do to define your work mindset from your submissive one? Or something like that. My work mindset has to be damn near polar opposite my submissive mindset. If I sit back and let other people handle things, a lot of things will never get accomplished. I have to be
I appreciate the lack of April Fools Jokes this year Read More »
Prompt: How does external stress affect your submission or service? The nerd in me is wondering if that should be effect not affect but I don’t care enough to go look it up right now. External stress makes me shut down eventually. When I shut down I don’t ask for help or reach out to
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Prompt: Are you encouraged to use dirty talk during sexual play? How does it make you feel? I don’t know that I’ve actively been encouraged or discouraged. I tend to say things like fuck me Daddy or hurt me because I’m encouraging more abuse. Typically though I’m just moaning and cumming and slurping and sucking
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Let me get the prompt out of the way first: How do you communicate when you are angry/upset? Short answer is badly. My emotions run away with me and it’s ugly as hell initially and then I get anxious and fold in on myself and then I get angrier as the person I need to
This may be the post that never ends, it may go on and on my heathens Read More »
I am super tired but that’s not why I’m struggling right now. This is a question that no matter how fluid I consider the term service hasn’t really come to my mind or been an issue. If everything I’ve ever done at the request of my Dominant partner was deemed as a service, the hardest
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prompt for today: do you struggle with depression? how has being a submissive helped you recover? i have some issues with this question but i’ll get to that in a second. i do not struggle with depression. have i had moments were i felt depressed. really pretty sure that i have but it’s not perpetual,
long day, good work, need a vacation Read More »
Prompt for yesterday: What are you struggling with right now? Lots of things and nothing simultaneously. I’m on deadlines with a few things and have resolved a few others. That perpetual stress is not new or even terribly frustrating if I’m being honest. That is my life. I sort of discussed it with a
I got a Mirror at the begging of January so I could work out at home instead of trying to venture back into germ infested gyms. I love the vibe of Planet Fitness when we don’t have walking variant factories but girl ain’t been in regularly since the start of the pandemic. Anyway, I haven’t
So the Mirror freaked me out tonight Read More »
Prompt for the day: Is there such a thing as a “true” submissive? If this means there’s one way to be viewed as a true submissive then no because we end up in different places and presentations for everything in life and the same is true in submission. Some can only submit sexually, others only
Snow and Ice, sleepy time Read More »
