not sure how long this will be because there’s not a lot going on right now. i’ve got about 10 more days before i can slide out of the missing my dad funk. that’s not entirely accurate but before the last thing that triggers missing my dad will be over in ten days. i’ll probably […]
new toys and new moods Read More »
I wrote the title of this post and then did it lol. I’m purposely taking it easy when I can because it’s exhausting to be me some days. The last two nights I turned off the TV and just played music for a few hours and let me brain just find a happy groove. I’m
rest and recuperation Read More »
Prompt for today: Where does sex fall on your list of basic needs? I don’t know that it’s very high outside of a relationship. I like orgasms but I can give myself those at any point in time. If I’m in a relationship what I’m looking for is typically comfort and honesty and connection. Sex
Y’all, I have been working on completing a project that I thought would be fun to do in conjunction with other people and what I have realized is I can’t ever do this kind of project again lol. Well not without setting some new parameters. Trying to be respectful of my collaborators meant my time
Struggle bus now boarding, passenger manifest: just me Read More »
i don’t always say what i want to say here because i’m not sure who is reading it. that’s dumb because as best i can tell the only people reading this are bots and me. i don’t want to make people uncomfortable but i don’t have anyone to talk about this stuff with anymore. i’m
cue the janet jackson Read More »
I gave way too many talks today and now I’m tapped out. This prompt is not better than yesterday’s but I’ll give it a shot. Prompt: Write a letter to someone you’ve lost, whether they’ve died or simply drifted away from your life. What do you have left to tell them? I won’t pick one
Dumbass thy name is red Read More »
After hearing from a friend this morning I was saddened but not shocked. Another round of the inability to hear one another had started and because I refuse to engage with people who can’t listen to a dissenting view I thought about what I wanted to say in this post. The problem though is when
I’m sure all of you have heard now that Prince died. I’m sure that for those of you that it matters, you know what you were doing, where you were, who you were with and how you felt. I was at my job and a string of concerned texts, emails and calls started streaming in
My record skipped, Prince Died Read More »
If you know my relationship status that may not strike you as odd. After all single girls don’t typically wear collars proclaiming their availability. But for me the lack of current adornment would typically send me into a tailspin. For those that don’t know I lost my father when I was barely 25 years old.
So it’s Father’s Day in the United States again. This is my fourteenth such holiday without my biological father. He died just shy of his birthday and Father’s Day a few months before I began work on my graduate degree. There have been years in the gap that have felt like my world was caving
Happy Father’s Day & other random things Read More »
