Your deafening silence is cool. I’m not sure how I’d respond to a valid comment instead of the spam and requests for random sponsorships for things that have nothing to do with my blog. I’ve been doing some work this week after doing jack shit for a week. I liked that week but since I …
Anyone that knows me knows that I am not a huge Alicia Keys fan even though I give her mad props as a pianist and songwriter. Her voice doesn’t vibe with me usually. This song seemed appropriate for the post so I’d like to acknowledge her in this moment. Not the whole song, just the …
i was scrolling Twitter yesterday and someone posed the question: are you really good being single or have you accepted it because that’s all you’ve ever known. i was struck by that because it made me think was i really good being single. and i sat with that for a while. i really am. i …
I may have just told a lie on twitter lol. I mean not entirely. Someone asked the single folks how many more rounds of talking to someone we had left in us and I was maybe more confident than I should have been. I am really good being single in the sense that it would …
where are you man that i am not really searching for Read More »
Prompt for today: Where does sex fall on your list of basic needs? I don’t know that it’s very high outside of a relationship. I like orgasms but I can give myself those at any point in time. If I’m in a relationship what I’m looking for is typically comfort and honesty and connection. Sex …
Prompt for today: Do you have a meditation ritual related to your submission? What is it like? I do not. I honestly probably need one for daily life but meditation is difficult for me on a good day. On bad days when I really should be invested in it, it’s impossible. Prompt for tomorrow: Do …
Y’all, I have been working on completing a project that I thought would be fun to do in conjunction with other people and what I have realized is I can’t ever do this kind of project again lol. Well not without setting some new parameters. Trying to be respectful of my collaborators meant my time …
Struggle bus now boarding, passenger manifest: just me Read More »
Trying to reconnect to myself again. I’m always busy and am not always taking care of myself in the way I should be. Even though it got rained out today, tennis is restarting and I’m looking forward to that. I’m starting to cook more again and I really enjoy that. I found out today my …
I started on this post a few hours ago and then got distracted. I do that though so I wasn’t feeling upset about that. It let me settle into my thoughts more and come at this from a different perspective. I am not a huge horoscope girl. I read them from time to time just …
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i’m about halfway through the writing prompts and whereas it was feeling very productive and self reflective early in the process, i’m not getting that so much anymore. it’s not that it couldn’t be but these prompts are, as i have mentioned before, mostly written from the perspective of someone that is coupled in a …
