I’ve been mulling this post over in my head for a few days. I’m sure I’ve written something like it before but I haven’t the motivation to go track it down in a decade plus of writings. I’ve been very slowly reengaging with my kinky self and in doing so have had a few things […]
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It’s been a long month. I thought it would be a smooth slide into the new year but it has not been. Instead, I’ve been presenting a lot, driving a lot, eating out too much, not sleeping enough, trying to manage my stress and health so nothing gets triggered and trying to squash the random
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i don’t know that it cured the ills but it helped them out at least. i woke up after a set of frantic dreams and one pretty mundane one as it involved me vacuuming for some reason. i was and maybe still am a little exhausted. i worked every day this week, had more meetings
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Your deafening silence is cool. I’m not sure how I’d respond to a valid comment instead of the spam and requests for random sponsorships for things that have nothing to do with my blog. I’ve been doing some work this week after doing jack shit for a week. I liked that week but since I
Anyone that knows me knows that I am not a huge Alicia Keys fan even though I give her mad props as a pianist and songwriter. Her voice doesn’t vibe with me usually. This song seemed appropriate for the post so I’d like to acknowledge her in this moment. Not the whole song, just the
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i was scrolling Twitter yesterday and someone posed the question: are you really good being single or have you accepted it because that’s all you’ve ever known. i was struck by that because it made me think was i really good being single. and i sat with that for a while. i really am. i
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I may have just told a lie on twitter lol. I mean not entirely. Someone asked the single folks how many more rounds of talking to someone we had left in us and I was maybe more confident than I should have been. I am really good being single in the sense that it would
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Prompt for today: Where does sex fall on your list of basic needs? I don’t know that it’s very high outside of a relationship. I like orgasms but I can give myself those at any point in time. If I’m in a relationship what I’m looking for is typically comfort and honesty and connection. Sex
Prompt for today: Do you have a meditation ritual related to your submission? What is it like? I do not. I honestly probably need one for daily life but meditation is difficult for me on a good day. On bad days when I really should be invested in it, it’s impossible. Prompt for tomorrow: Do
Y’all, I have been working on completing a project that I thought would be fun to do in conjunction with other people and what I have realized is I can’t ever do this kind of project again lol. Well not without setting some new parameters. Trying to be respectful of my collaborators meant my time
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