Prompt for today: Where does sex fall on your list of basic needs? I don’t know that it’s very high outside of a relationship. I like orgasms but I can give myself those at any point in time. If I’m in a relationship what I’m looking for is typically comfort and honesty and connection. Sex …
Prompt for today: Do you have a meditation ritual related to your submission? What is it like? I do not. I honestly probably need one for daily life but meditation is difficult for me on a good day. On bad days when I really should be invested in it, it’s impossible. Prompt for tomorrow: Do …
Y’all, I have been working on completing a project that I thought would be fun to do in conjunction with other people and what I have realized is I can’t ever do this kind of project again lol. Well not without setting some new parameters. Trying to be respectful of my collaborators meant my time …
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Trying to reconnect to myself again. I’m always busy and am not always taking care of myself in the way I should be. Even though it got rained out today, tennis is restarting and I’m looking forward to that. I’m starting to cook more again and I really enjoy that. I found out today my …
I started on this post a few hours ago and then got distracted. I do that though so I wasn’t feeling upset about that. It let me settle into my thoughts more and come at this from a different perspective. I am not a huge horoscope girl. I read them from time to time just …
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i’m about halfway through the writing prompts and whereas it was feeling very productive and self reflective early in the process, i’m not getting that so much anymore. it’s not that it couldn’t be but these prompts are, as i have mentioned before, mostly written from the perspective of someone that is coupled in a …
i don’t always say what i want to say here because i’m not sure who is reading it. that’s dumb because as best i can tell the only people reading this are bots and me. i don’t want to make people uncomfortable but i don’t have anyone to talk about this stuff with anymore. i’m …
Prompt for today: For poly submissives are you jealous of the time your Dominant spends with other partners in the relationship? How do you cope with that? So my last two dynamics were both poly. In one relationship there was no jealousy. Annoyance every blue moon because information was not relayed in a straight forward …
Have you ever wished you could reconnect with an ex-partner? How have you reconciled those feelings? Well isn’t this awkward. Yep I have, and nope it didn’t happen. I haven’t entirely reconciled these feelings but I’m working on it. I don’t like the getting to know you stage so I would prefer to be with …
Let me get the prompt out of the way first: How do you communicate when you are angry/upset? Short answer is badly. My emotions run away with me and it’s ugly as hell initially and then I get anxious and fold in on myself and then I get angrier as the person I need to …
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