music is moving me as of late. i’m going to link a song i want you to play as you are listening or to get your mind where mine is as i am writing this. okay if you don’t know india.arie you should learn her. i have been feeling lots of things lately and i […]
you are a beautiful surprise Read More »
I wrote the title of this post and then did it lol. I’m purposely taking it easy when I can because it’s exhausting to be me some days. The last two nights I turned off the TV and just played music for a few hours and let me brain just find a happy groove. I’m
rest and recuperation Read More »
I finally figured out why you couldn’t see the old background and I think I’m gonna rock with that for a bit. I got the white blocks under the sidebar. It’s not touching the frame yet but let’s do this bit by bit. I updated the logo and it’s temporary to be sure. I may
been tinkering, with the site and my thoughts about life Read More »
I have been on virtual meetings most of the weekend. All of this is by choice even though I forgot about some of it. Some of it is kink related and other is a vanilla interest. Either way, I’m multitasking and listening in. I’m glad that I am able to do this at all. Friday
Self-care is more than massages and pedicures Read More »
So I have a lot to do today. Normally, I’d sleep until 45 minutes before I needed to get started but I woke up with the alarm and stayed up for a change. Yesterday or the day before if we’re being time specific (y’all the days are blurring together with the sleep issues), I sent
up early, not feeling broken, still a little lonely Read More »
Your deafening silence is cool. I’m not sure how I’d respond to a valid comment instead of the spam and requests for random sponsorships for things that have nothing to do with my blog. I’ve been doing some work this week after doing jack shit for a week. I liked that week but since I
We aren’t quite at Christmas, we are in the midst of Hanukkah and Kwanzaa is upcoming. So is the start of another year. I’ve made it through another birthday and that was actually fantastic. I’m off until the new year. I’m really in a good place mentally and not distressed which is new for me.
it’s almost time for our yearly reboot Read More »
Last night the weather was finally gonna dip below freezing and while my AC had been set to way cooler than I like it to be, it hadn’t really been on the last week consistently because the outside temp was not warranting it. The last few days though the weather was having one of those
finally turned on the heat Read More »
I have been burning the proverbial candle at both ends. Lots of major things at work and home and trying not to lose my mind in process. Today I turned in one of the last major projects I had to do and that allowed me to just be still for a while. I didn’t respond
i woke up randomly today. i shouldn’t say woke up. i never really went to sleep. i was on my way to sleep and then all of a sudden i was wide awake. i logged into fetlife for the first time in a long time and was surprised there were three friend requests and no
insomnia thy name is fuck you very much Read More »
