Prompt for yesterday: How do you stay focused on service? I don’t know that I do on a daily basis. When I’m coupled it can slip if I’m not in regular contact with my partner because of other demands that I have on my time and energy. Prompt for today: What happens when you are […]
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Y’all, I have been working on completing a project that I thought would be fun to do in conjunction with other people and what I have realized is I can’t ever do this kind of project again lol. Well not without setting some new parameters. Trying to be respectful of my collaborators meant my time
Struggle bus now boarding, passenger manifest: just me Read More »
I have to admit I like the weekly check ins better. I can think about a lot of things at once and if my life goes nuts midweek, like it will this week, then I don’t have to feel bad about posting late or double posting or just saying fuck it. Prompt for today: Is
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Prompt for today: shortened How has spiritually impacted your submission? I don’t know that is has. I am a more spiritual than religious person by nature mostly because I think organized religion now feels kind of like a racket. My Dominant partners have either been religious or bordering on atheism. I almost converted for RS
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I have mentioned before that I have insomnia. It flares up from time to time especially if my body is throwing a tantrum. I’m having a flare with my HS which is milder than it has been but still throws a wrench in how I’m feeling. It’s also the first one I’ve had in six
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Trying to reconnect to myself again. I’m always busy and am not always taking care of myself in the way I should be. Even though it got rained out today, tennis is restarting and I’m looking forward to that. I’m starting to cook more again and I really enjoy that. I found out today my
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Prompt for Sunday: Write a submissive pledge for yourself. Write about the things you can control. I think I must feel like the people I put on the spot in my real life right now. I don’t know if I could write a pledge that I would adhere to in the long run. Mostly because
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Prompt for today: Do you feel like there’s a learning curve in submission? Do you have to unlearn societal norms? Not in the same way there is for a job. I think you have to learn your partner moreso than the role unless you are not naturally inclined to submission. This is not an issue
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I started on this post a few hours ago and then got distracted. I do that though so I wasn’t feeling upset about that. It let me settle into my thoughts more and come at this from a different perspective. I am not a huge horoscope girl. I read them from time to time just
This will be random as hell or what I think I want right now Read More »
Prompt for today: How do you handle disagreements or conflicts? It depends on what the disagreement or conflict is. If it’s something minor like I would prefer to sleep on one side of the bed but it really doesn’t matter as long as I get some sleep then I’m probably going to bed. If it’s
Fourth Week of Weekly Posts Read More »
