I mentioned before that I have been studying up on this new lifestyle that I hope to incorporate more into my life. I read a lot of general sites at first which were great for terminology and resources for those engaging in the BDSM world. There are conferences, seminars and people willing to work with […]

Okay this is my first post and I’m sure it won’t be the last. As I approach my next major birthday my life is in flux, but it is also coming into focus for me. I’m starting a new career, finishing my last degree, and embarking on a whole new adventure for myself. This blog

Well i finally went through all of the blogroll that i had been linking to. Sadly a few of them are gone now and the vanilla ones were just not updating or where my head is at now. So here are the remaining links as well as ones i think you should persue if you

A little nod to my favorite petite blond–Christina Aguilera–with the title there. This is where my former blog description will go and any random pertinent information that isn’t really a blog post. Journey with me as I delve deeper into the submissive aspects of my nature. The Velvet Rope is an homage to Ms. Jackson’s