Prompt for today: Competence and self-confidence eliminates the need for jealousy. I don’t know about this one. Jealousy for me at least stems more from lack of validation or inconsistency than it does any kind of lack of self-confidence or competence. That could be because I’m a Black woman and I have to have both […]
My fault this is late. I tried to do this a few days back because I knew it was going to be a hot mess of a weekend and then the system acted goofy and I gave up and yep then I forgot about it. Prompt for today: The needs of a Dominant and submissive
Prompt for today: Learning about other things and people teaches us about ourselves. I believe that to be true. I love learning new things and about new people and it enriches my life to do so. Prompt for tomorrow: Be childlike in exploring new things but grown up when interacting with people. Always asking questions
Prompt for today: How do you find gratitude changes your outlook? Does this affect your submission at all? Depends on what I am grateful for but in general it improves my mood or makes me introspective. As I am single it doesn’t routinely have a moment to impact my submission. When I have been coupled
Prompt for today: What would a perfect day look like for you? The weather is calm and no more than 82 but no cooler than 65. Someone fixes every food item that pops into my brain and brings it to me whenever I think about it. I can walk around the house naked or nearly
i haven’t really posted anything that wasn’t related to the weekly posts in a minute. it’s not that i haven’t had thoughts but i haven’t always had the energy for it. i’m sitting in bed after three days of a conference kinda grateful that i didn’t try to rush home tonight but also kinda missing
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Prompt for today: Talk about something you grew out of that meant a lot to you at the time. I’m not sure. Maybe scrap booking or cross stitching. I just didn’t have the time to do it anymore which was the problem. I still like them it’s just an energy issue. Prompt for tomorrow: What’s
Prompt for today: When do you feel most at peace with your submission? When I’m in bed next to my person and we are falling asleep snuggled up together. Prompt for tomorrow: Describe a time you were proud of yourself? Graduating from school, buying my second home, being approached to do the work I keep
Prompt for today: Where does sex fall on your list of basic needs? I don’t know that it’s very high outside of a relationship. I like orgasms but I can give myself those at any point in time. If I’m in a relationship what I’m looking for is typically comfort and honesty and connection. Sex
Prompt for today: Do you or are you the type of person who enjoys being micromanaged? Why or why not? Legit hate it and hate doing it to other people. It implies a lack of trust to me and I find it passive aggressive. There’s checking in for progress and then there’s being an ogre.
