I’ve been back in classes. I think I may try to do something in depth once a month if I can but that’s not what this post is about. I sat in a class on Butler Books which was kind of fascinating. It’s essentially about creating a book to help focus your service and make […]
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Prompt: What do you think is the biggest misconception from the outside world regarding BDSM? I am not sure there is one primary one. The two that come to mind the most readily is that people in BDSM are broken in some profound way and that everyone is just into kinky sex without regards to
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Prompt: Are you encouraged to use dirty talk during sexual play? How does it make you feel? I don’t know that I’ve actively been encouraged or discouraged. I tend to say things like fuck me Daddy or hurt me because I’m encouraging more abuse. Typically though I’m just moaning and cumming and slurping and sucking
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You did not get this last night because while I got home early for me, my mother got clingy as all get out–this is red velvet speak for she wanted to hang out and did much longer than I thought BUT she also rubbed my head until I got sleepy so boom trade off. As
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I’ll write the journal stuff later today. I’m up and my brain in churning so I wanted to get things out so I can go to bed. I like gaming. I like reading. I really like games that let me read any choose at least some of the behavior of my characters. Bad writing makes
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Getting things squared away with part of my day to day life has meant I could redirect to work stuff for a bit. I did that more of the day than I planned so I really did forget about this prompt. It’s basic and should be short potentially: Do you live your D/s in secret?
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This blog has been around almost as long as I have allowed myself to engage in the lifestyle. I renewed the domain not too long ago because I wasn’t sure I was ready to let it go. It, or my place within the lifestyle. Honestly, I keep playing that about in my head and I’m
I’ve been meaning to post for a few days and honestly sheer exhaustion has kicked in each time. Work is busy and I have been playing tennis most of the last month so yeah by my nighttime relaxation kicks in I’m ready for unconsciousness and not a lot else. As I was changing the
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Okay folks this vacation is quickly coming to an end and I have to say my bad as it does so. I flirt a fair amount with people I used to see naked. Witty banter gets me all hot and bothered if you’re good at it. And really to get me naked you have to
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Or how I became one of those people that I just didn’t understand. If you visit my page on Fetlife you would notice some changes there. After a number of years of being single and just having my D/s role listed I added “in a relationship” a few months back. That was true then as
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