prompt for today: do you have time alone? is it scheduled into your routine or is it as needed? what do you do with your alone time? kinda want to scream at this one. the third question would be irrelevant if the first question was no. no i don’t have alone time unless using the
prompt: if you have a list of rules, how often are they sorted through, changed or additions made? don’t have them now, didn’t have them before so they were never sorted through, changed or additions made. as i have mentioned over the last few posts i don’t know how i would have reacted even if
i’m about halfway through the writing prompts and whereas it was feeling very productive and self reflective early in the process, i’m not getting that so much anymore. it’s not that it couldn’t be but these prompts are, as i have mentioned before, mostly written from the perspective of someone that is coupled in a
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prompt: what are your Dominant’s daily expectations of you? when i had one and at certain points in time in the relationship it was to get some sleep as my sleep cycle is trash, to check in regularly–not daily necessarily but regularly, and to let them know if i was having and problems. nothing major,
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prompt for yesterday: what is your favorite rule? this would imply i have rules which to date i have not. outside of my Dominant partners pretty much all renaming me and that be what i respond to there’s been nothing firmly in place that was a rule i regularly followed. and even the name thing
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Prompt: What do you think is the biggest misconception from the outside world regarding BDSM? I am not sure there is one primary one. The two that come to mind the most readily is that people in BDSM are broken in some profound way and that everyone is just into kinky sex without regards to
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Prompt for today: Are there areas that you have pushed yourself to explore? Are there areas you want to explore but need someone to make you? Related to submission, I think the only area that I “forced” myself to explore was polyamory. Forced is a strong word here. I was in a situation where I
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Prompt for today: Discuss the last time that you broke a rule. What happened? Have you broken that rule before? Do you think it is one that you may break again? Doesn’t really apply to me. I don’t have a lot of rules and thus haven’t broken many of any thing along the way. I
prompt for today: what has changed in your dynamic this past year? is it a positive or negative change? how has it affected your serve (service maybe)? well pandemic happened to all of us but i’m single so nope nothing has changed in my dynamic over this last year. i’m on better terms with one
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Prompt for today: If SM is part of your dynamic, explain how pain works for you. Is it a sexual turn-on, a healing release, a spiritual moment, a session of giving? So I read this question and then had to realize that pain is not a part of everyone’s dynamic. This may be one
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