Prompt: How does external stress affect your submission or service? The nerd in me is wondering if that should be effect not affect but I don’t care enough to go look it up right now. External stress makes me shut down eventually. When I shut down I don’t ask for help or reach out to […]
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Prompt for the day: How do you handle your Dominant’s disappointment in you or your performance in a task? Honestly, I don’t handle that well. I have never handled disappointing men I care about well. It makes me sad and moody and then I kind of go into overdrive to make it better. I’ll also
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Prompt: Are you encouraged to use dirty talk during sexual play? How does it make you feel? I don’t know that I’ve actively been encouraged or discouraged. I tend to say things like fuck me Daddy or hurt me because I’m encouraging more abuse. Typically though I’m just moaning and cumming and slurping and sucking
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Have you ever wished you could reconnect with an ex-partner? How have you reconciled those feelings? Well isn’t this awkward. Yep I have, and nope it didn’t happen. I haven’t entirely reconciled these feelings but I’m working on it. I don’t like the getting to know you stage so I would prefer to be with
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Let me get the prompt out of the way first: How do you communicate when you are angry/upset? Short answer is badly. My emotions run away with me and it’s ugly as hell initially and then I get anxious and fold in on myself and then I get angrier as the person I need to
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I am super tired but that’s not why I’m struggling right now. This is a question that no matter how fluid I consider the term service hasn’t really come to my mind or been an issue. If everything I’ve ever done at the request of my Dominant partner was deemed as a service, the hardest
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Prompt for today: Have you ever felt pushed to an emotional edge? How would you describe that moment? Not in my dynamics now but in life surely. Losing my father, losing important people in my life, pivotal relationships ending, losing jobs, relocating and feeling like a failure. Those moments just suck. I feel a little
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prompt for today: when was the last time you were punished? how have things changed since then? i literally don’t remember getting punished. i may have been but it was probably something we both enjoyed like a hard spanking, rope or rough sex. nothing that i recall actually trying to correct my behavior and that
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prompt for today: how do you handle your temper around your dominant? are you allowed to express it in some way? my dominant is not some omnipotent wizard who only gets a perfect version of me. i don’t think i could function in a dynamic like that. when i get mad, he knows i’m mad.
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I debated posting this to my private blog but you’ve seen the relationships play out in public so this is just another step along that path. I couldn’t sleep last night, clearly, which is why I was up blogging before I went to bed. I am not sure why I went and click on an
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