Your deafening silence is cool. I’m not sure how I’d respond to a valid comment instead of the spam and requests for random sponsorships for things that have nothing to do with my blog. I’ve been doing some work this week after doing jack shit for a week. I liked that week but since I …
We aren’t quite at Christmas, we are in the midst of Hanukkah and Kwanzaa is upcoming. So is the start of another year. I’ve made it through another birthday and that was actually fantastic. I’m off until the new year. I’m really in a good place mentally and not distressed which is new for me. …
Anyone that knows me knows that I am not a huge Alicia Keys fan even though I give her mad props as a pianist and songwriter. Her voice doesn’t vibe with me usually. This song seemed appropriate for the post so I’d like to acknowledge her in this moment. Not the whole song, just the …
i was scrolling Twitter yesterday and someone posed the question: are you really good being single or have you accepted it because that’s all you’ve ever known. i was struck by that because it made me think was i really good being single. and i sat with that for a while. i really am. i …
I may have just told a lie on twitter lol. I mean not entirely. Someone asked the single folks how many more rounds of talking to someone we had left in us and I was maybe more confident than I should have been. I am really good being single in the sense that it would …
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If Wakanda had an entry port and a visa program, I’d probably be on the first thing smoking right now. I need to be ensconced in Black space right now and my most recent trip to Atlanta gave me none of that unfortunately. I left FetLife and while I miss what it used to be, …
Last night the weather was finally gonna dip below freezing and while my AC had been set to way cooler than I like it to be, it hadn’t really been on the last week consistently because the outside temp was not warranting it. The last few days though the weather was having one of those …
I have been burning the proverbial candle at both ends. Lots of major things at work and home and trying not to lose my mind in process. Today I turned in one of the last major projects I had to do and that allowed me to just be still for a while. I didn’t respond …
Prompt for today: How will you become a clear mirror if you resent being polished. This is a random repeat and I’m not sure why but I am polished more than I’d like to be. Prompt for tomorrow: All my soul follows you and circles you. I am sometimes wistful for this but I’m realistic …
I will post the last of the journal prompts tomorrow which doesn’t quite bring me to a year of posts because I just got over the daily posts. Some of them were repetitive and others were just not applicable. Even though it isn’t up yet, I learned a lot from this exercise of thinking about …
a year of submissive guide prompts & i forgot this part Read More »