Prompt for today: When do you feel most at peace with your submission? When I’m in bed next to my person and we are falling asleep snuggled up together. Prompt for tomorrow: Describe a time you were proud of yourself? Graduating from school, buying my second home, being approached to do the work I keep […]
Prompt for today: Where does sex fall on your list of basic needs? I don’t know that it’s very high outside of a relationship. I like orgasms but I can give myself those at any point in time. If I’m in a relationship what I’m looking for is typically comfort and honesty and connection. Sex
Prompt for today: Do you or are you the type of person who enjoys being micromanaged? Why or why not? Legit hate it and hate doing it to other people. It implies a lack of trust to me and I find it passive aggressive. There’s checking in for progress and then there’s being an ogre.
Prompt for today: Do you have a meditation ritual related to your submission? What is it like? I do not. I honestly probably need one for daily life but meditation is difficult for me on a good day. On bad days when I really should be invested in it, it’s impossible. Prompt for tomorrow: Do
Prompt for yesterday: How do you stay focused on service? I don’t know that I do on a daily basis. When I’m coupled it can slip if I’m not in regular contact with my partner because of other demands that I have on my time and energy. Prompt for today: What happens when you are
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I have to admit I like the weekly check ins better. I can think about a lot of things at once and if my life goes nuts midweek, like it will this week, then I don’t have to feel bad about posting late or double posting or just saying fuck it. Prompt for today: Is
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Prompt for today: shortened How has spiritually impacted your submission? I don’t know that is has. I am a more spiritual than religious person by nature mostly because I think organized religion now feels kind of like a racket. My Dominant partners have either been religious or bordering on atheism. I almost converted for RS
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Prompt for Sunday: Write a submissive pledge for yourself. Write about the things you can control. I think I must feel like the people I put on the spot in my real life right now. I don’t know if I could write a pledge that I would adhere to in the long run. Mostly because
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Prompt for today: Do you feel like there’s a learning curve in submission? Do you have to unlearn societal norms? Not in the same way there is for a job. I think you have to learn your partner moreso than the role unless you are not naturally inclined to submission. This is not an issue
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Prompt for today: How do you handle disagreements or conflicts? It depends on what the disagreement or conflict is. If it’s something minor like I would prefer to sleep on one side of the bed but it really doesn’t matter as long as I get some sleep then I’m probably going to bed. If it’s
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