Prompt for Sunday: Write a submissive pledge for yourself. Write about the things you can control. I think I must feel like the people I put on the spot in my real life right now. I don’t know if I could write a pledge that I would adhere to in the long run. Mostly because […]
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Prompt for today: Do you feel like there’s a learning curve in submission? Do you have to unlearn societal norms? Not in the same way there is for a job. I think you have to learn your partner moreso than the role unless you are not naturally inclined to submission. This is not an issue
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Prompt for today: How do you handle disagreements or conflicts? It depends on what the disagreement or conflict is. If it’s something minor like I would prefer to sleep on one side of the bed but it really doesn’t matter as long as I get some sleep then I’m probably going to bed. If it’s
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Prompt for Sunday: how do you recharge or replenish yourself after a powerful or intense session? probably sleep, eat and shower. Almost always in that order because if the scene is intense enough I need to sleep to reconnect to myself and then I’m starving so hopefully I have stocked food ahead of time and
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I am struggling today. It’s Mother’s Day and most of the time I suck it up and do my good daughter thing but today I got squat. I ordered her food yesterday so we didn’t have to fight the holiday crowd, got groceries and the like. I sent her gift card this morning along with
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Y’all the look on my face right now is annoyance personified. All the good energy that manifested in the front half of the prompts is disappearing. The last month or so is clearly written for dyanamics that “traditional” and “codified” whereas those have never reflected my experience and don’t necessarily reflect my desires going forward.
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prompt for today: shortened–how does submission impact your daily routine? do you have to ask for things or check in? only one partner asked me to do check ins and it did not go well. my day fluctuates literally hour to hour sometimes so doing x when you wake up or y when you get
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prompt: shortened–do you have birthday spankings as part of your dynamic? anything special about them if you do? no because i’m grown and that shit would be weird to me. nor am i trying to get enough swats in to reach my current age because i’m grown. if it makes someone else feel all the
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prompt for the day: shortened because my brain hurts even processing this one–think of collar substitutes, wear one for a day, how did you feel and what were you focused on? i don’t wear collars so thinking of a substitute to wear for any reason is awkward. plus i would need to be prepared for
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prompt for today: are you voice trained? does your dominant have a preference on how you communicate with them? i literally had never heard of this but i think the response would be nope. since i hadn’t heard of it then there is no preference.
