August 2020

Sitting in my peace

angry, exes, introspective, random / redvelvetaches

There are days I wonder why I even bothered to get out of bed. Sleeping was good, dreams were good and no one could piss me the fuck off. If you are my Fetlife friend, you may have correctly guessed that was one of those days. After a rough week of just being Black in […]

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New Month, Old Me

exes, frustration, irritated, life is so so, tired / redvelvetaches

I’ve been chatting it up with one of my exes a lot lately. Mostly as I process and work through complicated grieving I’m having related to another ex. That’s awkward at best but it’s been useful. I probably need to sage this space as I told grief invoking ex that too much of it reminds

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