Y’all I’m living my best life today so I’m just going to answer a paraphrased version of the prompt: Am I allowed to give gifts to my Dominant partner? Do I have my own money or do I have to ask for it? I have always made more money than my Dominant partners so asking them for money would seem odd at best and problematic at worst. I give gifts when I think about it and for occasions. I never feel obligated to give them either.