It’s been raining most of the morning and that is never a good setup for me in terms of getting up and out of bed. I’ve been up long enough to use the restroom and grab a bit to eat. Every time I almost fell back asleep, my phone dinged so I was awake ish again. I may nap until this event I have to attend later and then come home and maybe take down my locs. I’m getting them done tomorrow and that’s always good but like for real if I could just deliver my hair and take a nap, I’d probably do that too. I’m just tired. If I didn’t know there was literally no way possible that it could be the case, I’d think I was pregnant. Except I’m not hungry, just sleepy. That’s why I’m doing this post early so I don’t forget tonight.
Prompt for today: Does your Dominant spank you as a part of maintenance even if you have been good? I almost laughed at this and wondered if the last few months had been a horrible mistake and waste of my time. Then I realized my dynamics have not had a lot of protocols in them in the way that the writer of the book has had in her dynamic. To my knowledge she’s been with the same Dominant partner for a decade plus. Whereas I have been floating between partners and trying to find my place in the whole BDSM world. That’s a long way around to say, no I have never been spanked in order to maintain my good behavior. As I’m normally good, it’s not required. I’d be interested to see how it plays out in a future dynamic but I don’t know that it will come up.